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What Dating Strategist Discovered That Changed How Men Approach Women

April 30, 20234 min read

Dating in the digital age is challenging. How do you stand out from the crowd? How do you meet someone special whenyou can’t just stroll down the street and bump into potential partners, or even strike up a conversation with them at thelocal pub?Today it’s almost impossible to meet people organically – first dates are usually preceded by hours ofmessaging back and forth; meeting for coffee, drinks or dinner; exchanging phone numbers; and then – only if everythinggoes well – arranging a second date. Even establishing rapport with strangers as they walk by is much harder than itsounds. So what can men do to be successful in this dating game?

Be honest about what you want

If you want more casual dating experiences, then make sure that you’re honest about this. If you’re looking for something more serious, then make sure that people know this. Dating apps and websites are full of people who are hoping to find a long-term partner, while others are just hoping to hook up. If you’re somewhere in the middle, then you’ve got to make it clear to the people that you’re not going to be able to find what they’re searching for.

Go where the people are

Go to places where the people are who you want to meet. If you’re trying to meet someone who shares your interests, then go to events where these people are. If you want to meet someone with whom you have a lot in common, then, go to places where you know these people will be, like book clubs, sporting events, or concerts. You’ll be surprised by the number of people you can meet at these events who are there because they want to meet someone, too.

Be confident in your own skin

If you’re more comfortable wearing sweatpants and a t-shirt, then wear sweatpants and a t-shirt on a date. If you’re more comfortable wearing your favorite suit, then wear your suit. Women are attracted to confidence, and they want to be around people who are comfortable in their own skin. It’s more important to be comfortable than to try to impress someone with what you’re wearing.

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Be proud to be a kind

Being kind doesn’t mean you need to be old-fashioned and try to do everything for your date. Being a kind means being thoughtful and respectful. It means being willing to open the door for a woman, pull out her seat, or offer to take her on a walk when the weather is nice. Or for women, it could be thanking the man for the excellent choice of wine and/or restaurant.

Don’t be afraid to try something new and be yourself

If you want to meet someone new, you’re probably going to have to try something that’s a little bit out of your comfort zone. You may have to attend events that you wouldn’t normally go to, or try activities that you’ve never done before. You may have to be willing to let go of some of your expectations about who you want to be dating. And you may have to be willing to be a little bit vulnerable and open up to people. It’s okay if you’re not perfect, and it’s okay if you don’t want to date someone who is exactly like you. At the end of the day, dating is all about finding someone who understands you, appreciates you, and shares your values. It’s okay if you want to meet someone who is different from you – most people are different from everyone else, anyway! It’s how you work with those differences that matters.
Happy Dating!!!🔥


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